tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post7823840455661256912..comments2023-10-23T09:09:44.285-04:00Comments on red high heels: Sour gumdropsRed High Heelshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06859925351004346914noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-62517392625127002462009-12-17T19:00:46.460-05:002009-12-17T19:00:46.460-05:00This post was great thanks for sharing this part o...This post was great thanks for sharing this part of your life with us. I know exactly how you feel, I too do not open up right away with those I have just met, and would love to have more lasting friendships. It's tough especially when friends graduate, move away that just gets harder. Hang in there it will be okay. :)Alissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04427867624406741686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-48122791578141726502009-12-17T12:46:39.542-05:002009-12-17T12:46:39.542-05:00While I agree with my BEAUTIFUL Aunt Marsha, that ...While I agree with my BEAUTIFUL Aunt Marsha, that people are dingbats (I'm the poster child) I've found, and Jennifer as well, that as pessimistic and sad as it sounds most people are not very good at caring for others. I have felt this many times, and I lost a very close friend when I was pregnant, I guess she couldn't relate and wasn't who I thought she was. I'm like you though, when I make a friend they are friends for life, remember our Reba concerts? I do, and I consider you to be one of my very close childhood friends. But unfortunately life does happen, and people drift apart, you shouldn't let it get to you too much. Better days are coming, you'll see!Garcia Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15726640126702577330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-46672820099722519192009-12-16T14:01:24.043-05:002009-12-16T14:01:24.043-05:00Your mom is so right Mandie. Preach it, Marsha!
...Your mom is so right Mandie. Preach it, Marsha! <br /><br />Honestly I am that person as well. And my best friend called me on it. Since we don't see each other too often we must rely on phone conversations, which I'm terrible at. She called one day and said look we've got to keep up better and basically told me to answer my phone and call her back or we would drift apart -- which neither of us wanted. <br /><br />As soon as she said something to me, I knew she was right -- I needed to be a better friend. Im not sure if that helps you at all, but you are such a loyal and good friend and I'm sure she doesn't mean to or want to hurt you. Next time you talk just tell her your heart and let her know that you really need her to be your friend right now. I think by telling her the truth and that it hurts you when she doesn't call or answer might help things a bit.Kendi Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17054686256991598688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-4065451182556039322009-12-16T13:55:35.879-05:002009-12-16T13:55:35.879-05:00Mandie,
I think that I know who this is and yo...Mandie,<br /><br /> I think that I know who this is and you know that she does not intentionally mean to hurt your feelings - some people just aren't very organinzed. They are dingbats!! But you know that God brought you into each others lives for a reason. He probably knew that she would need a loyal friend who would be a friend no matter what. You are that kind of person! Besides, friends are not easy to find and even harder to keep over the years - that is life. Just keep trying to be the best friend that you can be and just accept that is how she is and don't let it hurt your feelings too much. Love you, Mom<br />P.S. - Got a kick out of the pic!!Marsha Meltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18228860433153948845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-11994384738710187142009-12-16T10:26:09.569-05:002009-12-16T10:26:09.569-05:00hey girl!
i know this is totally random, but my h...hey girl!<br /><br />i know this is totally random, but my husband and i photographed josh & theresa's wedding and somewhere along the way, i stumbled across your blog! either way, i've randomly read what you have to say and some posts that you write (like this one) strike such a chord in me. <br /><br />to be honest, i'm that friend. the friend that doesn't pick up her phone, but has good intentions of calling back! i hate this quality about myself and wish that it weren't so, but when it comes to changing how i am as a long distance friend, it never works! :(<br /><br />i know that we technically just became blogger friends, but if you have any tips for the non-phone friend that genuinely does care about relationships, but just can't seem to make it happen... i would greatly appreciate it! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241739693103323879.post-49476291544422275642009-12-15T22:10:48.491-05:002009-12-15T22:10:48.491-05:00First of all, I can totally relate. I don't le...First of all, I can totally relate. I don't let myself get vulnerable with too many people and once I do, they are usually friends FOR LIFE! <br />I'm sorry about your friendship, I have been through the same thing and eventually the relationship becomes more exhausting than it's worth. It's a crummy feeling and one that never feels good, you'll be in my prayers.Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12353913904792737262noreply@blogger.com